Wednesday, September 14, 2022

FLOWER POWER

     This should be an easy topic for me.  I L💖VE flowers.  🌻    Yet, it is difficult to narrow the theme.  Plants are so prolific.  There are 250,00-400,00 species of flowers, depending how they are classified.   I remind family and friends to send them to me while I am alive to enjoy them. (hint) Flowers at funerals often comfort the living!

It is not only their color, but their scent and texture which are varied and attractive!

     Used in so many ways for so many occasions, flowers have been used to brighten our lives since the first child picked a fist full! I recall gathering a handful of dandelions and presenting them to my grandmother. 

She reacted as though they were a dozen roses! I had no idea that by dinner time they would go into the trash due to their very limited longevity, once picked. HA! Just try to get them out of your lawn!! Or even a crack in the paving. Such tenacity they have.

    With a bit of research, I discovered that the first people to use floral decorations were the Egyptians. Somehow, that did not surprise me.  For all the work they did regarding dead kings (and what we do now for deceased queens 😢💂) demonstrate their ornate and intricate use of architecture and items inside of those constructions.  There are four periods when flower arranging developed. In addition to the Egyptian, the other periods are Greek, Roman and ancient Chinese.   I was not surprised by the inclusion of those cultures, either.  If you are interested in learning more, I suggest you check out the website I used for the info:  www.Study.com. 

Here in the Assisted Living where I reside, we are going to have a chance to do some flower arranging soon.  There are a few gardens on the property and every floor has an area where potted plants seem to dance in the sunny spots they occupy. Flowers certainly have an emotional impact!!

    World renown gardens such as Longwood in Pennsylvania and Buchart in Canada, both of which I had the good fortune of visiting and photographing, seem to be like Paradise. Often, during my travels, I discovered   so many oases where all kinds of blooms lifted my spirit.  We may not have to venture further than our door, where we simply enjoy our own backyard or neighborhoods.

What would a wedding be without flowers? After our son's nuptial, I gathered some of the table arrangements, dried the contents, and put them into little bags with added scent, which I then gave to my daughter- in-love, her mother, and her bridesmaids.     

How many celebrate with floral gifts, be it a nosegay, a piece done in porcelain, or imprinted on Tee shirts? I am blessed to have a husband who never tires of sending, or giving me arrangements--often, "just because."  🌼
I like to surprise others with a centerpiece from time to time.   

Don't young ladies remember their first corsage?  Young men may not be keen on recalling flowers that they had, but I suspect some can remember their wives tossing the wedding bouquet.        
   
     I don't think I will ever forget my initial visit to Pike's Peak. I was fortunate to have a friend drive up there. This afforded opportunities to stop along the way. Above the timberline, were some very, very tiny colorful flowers. They grew close to the ground, and we were careful not to step on them.   
 I found it interesting that in a pretty remote place, such beautiful little plants grew. How many people get to see them, or notice them, while going up the mountain?  Yet here I was thanking God for such a beautiful experience!

    Even fruit trees and some vegetables produce blossoms!  Several types of weeds display flowers.  Queen Ann's Lace reminds me of a lace curtain.

      A friend of mine, who encouraged me to write this blog, also has a blog. Her most recent post was about plants.  She seems go have not only a green thumb, but the fingers of both hands certainly must be the deepest shade of green. You can view her blogs at www.starmint.wordpress.com and wwwchickadee99.wordpress.com.   
I am indebted to her for her encouragement as I enjoy writing, sharing pictures, and (hopefully) uplifting you! After reading her blog, it gave me inspiration to select this theme about flowers. Sometimes, the most difficult thing in writing can be the selection of a topic!  Some other time I may compose one about trees.                                               

    It was hard to limit not only the number of shots to include, but also, which ones.  
If you made a scrapbook of your flower pictures, which would you include?  Where is your favorite garden?  Even if you don't want to capture them in camera, go to a farm stand, or even Target, and invest in a few flowers today!  


                                                                                                       

    












Sunday, August 7, 2022

VACATIONS & STAYCATIONS

   I recently returned from a trip to Gettysburg National Park in Pennsylvania. While I visited a number of times previously, I never tire of the landscape nor history.  


Those who sacrificed their lives lie in graves marked with a number or "unknown," due to lack of dog tags in that time period. The cemetery is also the spot where Lincoln gave his immortalized address. I find it ironic that several cannon are posed around the graveyard. 


There are more monuments than I have ever seen; overdone a bit, in my opinion. However, those who had them erected to honor their fallen would no doubt, disagree.     

The town is filled with learning opportunities in many venues. This time, I did not go into one museum, but spent the better part of the day navigating the battlefield with the map provided by the National Parks. It did not cost me a cent, save for the expensive gas for my car! This enabled me to spend as much, or as little time at each locale for contemplation, appreciation and photography. 


Photo ops are abundant! 


       Some may think it sacrilege to have used my cap in such a frivolous way, but that is how I feel about the wars and rumors of wars.  

A tragic joke on humanity!


However, when I saw these tourist vehicles, I was astounded. They looked very out of place, more like they should have been in an amusement park!

                                                                                   The battle was one of the worst in our nation's          history.  In spite of that, the battlefield is now serene.                                                                           The surrounding rolling hills and winding   roads make it a challenge to drive.  Is that not   one of the points of vacations? That we might   experience different activities than those we have on a daily basis?                                                                                             

    Some Americans are reluctant to use vacation time. Many take along their laptops and check in at the office, even while on a break.  However, vacation time was put into work schedules for a reason. Workers often return to their jobs refreshed and renewed.

    |The recent pandemic taxed the tourist industry. Some  have not yet rebounded. Being confined and limited to our usual forms of diversion, spending time outdoors and experimenting with different ways to play, has been a necessity. 

     I did a bit of research about the benefit of vacationing. From the website: www.allina health.org I obtained the following:

Seven health benefits of taking a vacation

Studies have shown that taking time away from the job can have physical and mental health benefits. People who take vacations have lower stress, less risk of heart disease, a better outlook on life, and more motivation to achieve goals. If you still need a little convincing, here is a list of some of the additional benefits of taking time away from work. 

1. Improved physical health

Stress can contribute to heart disease and high blood pressure. For both men and women, the New York Times reported, taking a vacation every two years compared to every six will lessen the risk of coronary heart disease or heart attacks.

                2. Improved mental health

Neuroscientists have found that chronic exposure to stress can alter your brain structure and bring on anxiety and depression. When you take a vacation, feelings of calm arise and relieve stress, which allows the body and mind to heal in ways that it couldn't if it were still under pressure.

3. Greater well-being

According to a Gallup study, people who "always make time for regular trips" had a 68.4 score on the Gallup-Heathway's Well-Being Index, in comparison to a 51.4 Well-Being score for less frequent travelers. One study found that three days after vacation, subjects' physical complaints, quality of sleep, and mood had improved compared to before vacation. These gains were still present five weeks later, especially in those who had more personal time and overall satisfaction during their vacation.

4. Increased mental motivation

Many who return from vacation are more focused and productive. Studies have found that chronic stress can make it difficult to achieve certain tasks and cause memory problems. Taking time off can be like getting a tune-up for the brain, improving your mental health and cognition.

5. Improved family relationships

Spending time enjoying life with loved ones can keep relationships strong. A study by the Arizona Department of Health and Human Services found that women who took vacations were more satisfied with their marriages.

6. Decreased burnout

Employees who take regular time to relax are less likely to experience burnout, making them more creative and productive than their overworked, under-rested counterparts. Another way to manage burnout is through the Oxygen Mask Rule: "Secure your masks before assisting others." In other words, address your mental, physical and spiritual needs before committing to responsibilities benefitting others outside of your immediate family.

7. Boosted happiness

Research shows planning a vacation can boost your happiness. Some people experience an elevated mood up to eight weeks before the trip. 

The bottom line is, take a vacation if you can. When you take time away from the stresses of work and daily life, it can improve our physical and mental health, motivation, relationships, job performance and perspective. A vacation can help you feel refreshed and more prepared to handle whatever comes when you return.

 When our son was younger, vacations had to include time spent at an amusement park, or it was no vacation for him.      


    I love to sail on cruises and to spend time at the seashore.  Some people love intercontinental travel, or camping.   All of those experiences are easy to include photography.  Capture the memory. Remember that trip to.....when you/I/we.....  We see things we may never see again. Even familiar territory like the Gettysburg Battlefield can be recorded in numerous ways at different times of day, different weather, different seasons. Each of these variables will provide different perspectives and interpretations of the same place.

While the Covid pandemic wrecked havoc in our lives, I think some good things came from it.  Staycation is now part of our vocabulary.  Probably, many would not think that staying at home or nearby could be a vacation.  However, visiting parks or other out door places in our neighborhoods provide respite from the mundane of our taxing daily lives.

Even though I am retired, I still like time away from home. The change of pace, varied surroundings and activities foster my creativity and provide rest from the routine of being a care giver.

Whatever your paradise, take time to go! Bring back pictures that you can show to others to tell of your travels. Record them for your memory's sake, or for your family. Children become independent and have their own vacations, but we can look back together and recall the fun times we shared. There is little reason each of you can not do the same.